Who defines beauty? Well.. hell. I do💃🏽! If I changed my body or my overall looks every time the beauty industry changed their definition of what beauty is, I will never recognize myself. You definitely won't recognize all the sexiness that I call me😂. It will become depressing if I constantly compared myself to what other people view as beautiful. What I have realized over the years is that...SOMEONE WILL ALWAYS HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY ABOUT HOW YOU LOOK. I lost weight, they told me..."You need to eat something. You look sick". I gained weight, they told me..."Girl, those hips and butt are spreading". I started to let that get to me, because I was trying to fit what everyone else felt I should look like. I understand how it can be tempting to try risky methods to control the weight, or to develop the "look".
It took me a while to get there, and I still struggle with it...but overall I am happy with whatever size I am and how I look. Lord knows these hips and butt aren't going anywhere regardless of what size I am (thanks Mom). Chillllllllldd...let me tell you.... It's not easy sleeping on my back, or finding pants that fit perfect (I digress)..anywho.. I have what many women are paying plastic surgeons to give them. So I embrace all of this lusciousness that my genetics gave me, and I make the changes that I want to make.
So at the end of the day... Do you Boo. BE YOUR OWN KIND OF BEAUTIFUL! Be happy with you. Whether you decide to make any changes to your body or looks or you stay the way your are, do it for you and no one else. If someone says something about it.. you have two middle fingers for a reason.
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